November 30, 2023
Leap of faith
November 28, 2023
Helpful Elfin
Dons clogs
Knits wool
Eats snow
November 27, 2023
More French than Festive
A much awaited trip has landed on a dastardly inconvenient moon phase, rolling out the holidays with red glitter and candy cane carpets may no longer feel right, and nestling in to disentangle one’s home, rather than run amok in a merry frenzy, could be an imperative.
November 26, 2023
Lay it down
Numerous trips, imminent holidayS and a berserk number of school proceedings, ceremonies, volunteer opportunities…
Waldorf education has a classic and constant natural, beautiful inherent theme and feel. I adore coloring within those traditional lines. The more confining the constraints, the more the creativity pours.
Outside of establishments, though, the choices are maddeningly infinite.
So fix yourself upon a THEME
“Sweater Weather - Eastcoaster style” for Cleveland with family
“Romantic, Intimate - Lingerie” for 40th Birthday
“Helpful Elfin” for everyday style & overall mood
“What would a French woman do?” for a couples jaunt to isle St Maarten
“Hershey’s Kiss” in the advent calendar
“Vintage Niwot” for Christmas
“Fuck it” for family photo, it might just not happen this year ;)
November 25, 2023
Shortie from Scottie
Kids love to use it as their cut-out and embellish cookie dough; so easy to mix up we do it nearly every weekend of the season.
November 22, 2023
It’s really not very boring
November 16, 2023
Regent
To do today :
- Run household- Run land
- Symbolize identity, unity and pride
- Maintain stability and continuity
- Officially recognize success and excellence
- Support the ideal of voluntary service
- Engage in politics and ceremony
- Act as intercessor (wherever needed)
- Use diplomacy and tactical finesse
- Patroness art and education
- Innovate culture
- Supervise staff
- Model piety and chastity
- Produce male heir
- Secure husband’s hold
- Hit the slopes
November 15, 2023
Know no bounds
At a recent introduction to Compassionate Communication (also known as NVC, Nonviolent Communication), questions kept arising regarding boundaries. Each time the speaker politely tried to steer us clear of drawing lines explaining that compassion arises when border delineations dissolve. The questioners would have none of it “surely I MUST have LIMITS as to how much I’m willing to take…” The speaker listened compassionately.
Chatter around boundaries entered my field in the following days and I so enjoyed being equipped with this fresh take on the topic. NO BOUNDARIES ! It also reminded me of my dear Yoga School - Kripalu Yoga - where our fantastic teacher said the best way to describe Kripalu Yoga, and therefore the essence of teaching we would impart thereafter, was COMPASSIONATE.
November 14, 2023
100’s of elves
November 13, 2023
It’s everything
Agenda - ‘matters of practice’ ‘things to be done’
Credenda - ‘matters of faith’ ‘things to be believed’
THE MOM BOOK. My agenda is my everything. There were a few consecutive mornings I was in a whirlwind and neglected THE BOOK. What happened? I confused pizza day, ‘handwork’ was left behind, husband was likely blamed, frazzle mania, a few extra trips to school…
Goldie’s friend was at our home looking for a special pen she brought, we didn’t find it before her departure so I said “not to worry it will turn up, I’ll write it in my book”, to which Goldie proclaimed “if it’s in her book it always gets done!” When we found the pen I put it in Goldie’s backpack AND wrote down in the book that I had done so to remind Goldie in the AM to return it. I kid you not! It seems insane, right? But writing things down lifts them off of your brain so you can focus on the present moment, the task at hand. The past/future minutiae is otherwise debilitating. Write it down - consider it done. It is extremely satisfying to dot one’s i’s and cross ones t’s.
- Ongoing grocery lists are on a separate portable notepad.
- Completed items are always fully crossed out!
- I love highlighters
- Pen vs Pencil depends on the season, but stick to one or the other.
- This book is SACRED and OFF LIMITS to anyone but you. They can 👀, but they can’t touch !
- Mostly business, not so much a diary. But certainly keep a separate journal as well.
November 9, 2023
Dancing in the dark
Caregiver superpower : seeing in the dark.
Close your eyes to navigate an unlit room. Literally ! Try it ! It’s magic !! It’s also an endlessly applicable metaphor - CLOSE YOUR EYES TO SEE IN THE DARK.
YOU are the LIGHT in light’s absence.
Tada
There are times to flee, but more often, chances to REMEDY.
Remedy - re-med - heal again.
November 8, 2023
Good to see You
Apparently, it can’t all be rainbows and butterflies ?!?!
Realization : if a situation continuously reoccurs, it’s likely due to expert avoidance and adroit dodging. FACE the facts, gradually unearth the ROOT, expose the TRUTH and conclude the past.
November 7, 2023
November 6, 2023
Much to come
No reminder to BE HERE NOW is necessary as laser focused presence is a matter of survival in precarious conditions. The body, heart, mind and spirit come together to navigate the squall.
November 3, 2023
Freeze style
“The ground is too frozen to pull up carrots today.”
The farmers pronounced the morning of the would-be field trip. Fair warning in nature is no warning. The ground will warm up, soften, and give in its own time. The frost doth thaw! Eventually.
November 2, 2023
Abide
Abide - remain behind.
I notice only encouragement (in this society) to get ahead! stay ahead! be multiple steps ahead of!! … is it working?
Why not try ABIDING. Wait, dwell , remain, endure, stay firm under.
Sukha - comfort, joy. The end result, reward of abiding.