Astrid Parker Kirschenbaum
November 14, 2023
100’s of elves
November 13, 2023
It’s everything
Agenda - ‘matters of practice’ ‘things to be done’
Credenda - ‘matters of faith’ ‘things to be believed’
THE MOM BOOK. My agenda is my everything. There were a few consecutive mornings I was in a whirlwind and neglected THE BOOK. What happened? I confused pizza day, ‘handwork’ was left behind, husband was likely blamed, frazzle mania, a few extra trips to school…
Goldie’s friend was at our home looking for a special pen she brought, we didn’t find it before her departure so I said “not to worry it will turn up, I’ll write it in my book”, to which Goldie proclaimed “if it’s in her book it always gets done!” When we found the pen I put it in Goldie’s backpack AND wrote down in the book that I had done so to remind Goldie in the AM to return it. I kid you not! It seems insane, right? But writing things down lifts them off of your brain so you can focus on the present moment, the task at hand. The past/future minutiae is otherwise debilitating. Write it down - consider it done. It is extremely satisfying to dot one’s i’s and cross ones t’s.
- Ongoing grocery lists are on a separate portable notepad.
- Completed items are always fully crossed out!
- I love highlighters
- Pen vs Pencil depends on the season, but stick to one or the other.
- This book is SACRED and OFF LIMITS to anyone but you. They can π, but they can’t touch !
- Mostly business, not so much a diary. But certainly keep a separate journal as well.
November 10, 2023
Dancing in the dark
Caregiver superpower : seeing in the dark.
Close your eyes to navigate an unlit room. Literally ! Try it ! It’s magic !! It’s also an endlessly applicable metaphor - CLOSE YOUR EYES TO SEE IN THE DARK.
YOU are the LIGHT in light’s absence.
November 9, 2023
Tada
There are times to flee, but more often, chances to REMEDY.
Remedy - re-med - heal again.
November 8, 2023
Good to see You
Apparently, it can’t all be rainbows and butterflies ?!?!
Realization : if a situation continuously reoccurs, it’s likely due to expert avoidance and adroit dodging. FACE the facts, gradually unearth the ROOT, expose the TRUTH and conclude the past.
November 7, 2023
November 6, 2023
Much to come
No reminder to BE HERE NOW is necessary as laser focused presence is a matter of survival in precarious conditions. The body, heart, mind and spirit come together to navigate the squall.
November 3, 2023
Freeze style
“The ground is too frozen to pull up carrots today.”
The farmers pronounced the morning of the would-be field trip. Fair warning in nature is no warning. The ground will warm up, soften, and give in its own time. The frost doth thaw! Eventually.
November 2, 2023
Abide
Abide - remain behind.
I notice only encouragement (in this society) to get ahead! stay ahead! be multiple steps ahead of!! … is it working?
Why not try ABIDING. Wait, dwell , remain, endure, stay firm under.
Sukha - comfort, joy. The end result, reward of abiding.
November 1, 2023
Queen Vibes
October 30, 2023
SLOW is fast
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| SNOW walk |
And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said
They are the sons and daughters of life's longing for itself
They come through you but not from you
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you
For they have their own thoughts
You may house their bodies but not their souls
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow
You may strive to be like them
But seek not to make them like you
For life goes not backward, nor tarries with yesterday
As living arrows are sent forth
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite
And he bends you with his might
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness
For even as he loves the arrow that flies
So he loves also the bow that is stable
October 27, 2023
BIG house love
















