Sacrificing for your dream. Some days I look around (at my little life) and I feel overtaken with awe and immensely ‘blessed’. So much so, that the beauty of it can feel precarious (“too good to be true, so much to lose!”). But, as my husband elucidates, this life did not appear out of nowhere - myriads of sacrifices (countless other possibilities passed up) befalls when we make each choice. We are choosing one of infinite. So when the bliss is so joyous we panic, remember we had our hand in this; these are the steady and continuous - unprecarious - fruits of our labor. 🍇
Astrid Parker Kirschenbaum
November 4, 2025
October 31, 2025
🦢 elegant and effective
October 27, 2025
Destroyer of all diseases
October 25, 2025
What fresh hell is this?
OH the sheer agony of caring for the family and tending to the home while feeling unwell. We know it from periods, pregnancy, childbirth and postpartum, traumatic or sad events, the common cold, chronic illness, heartache, heartbreak and beyond. There is no relief to be found. My personal solution? Complain (and blame) loudly and incessantly until someone (my husband) tells me they feel sorry for me and then all is a little bit more right in my world - merci beaucoup, dankeschön.
October 17, 2025
20 toes
October 1, 2025
Date Night 🍾
September 20, 2025
Yang
Give us your deepest, strongest versions of your poses. No excuses. If not NOW, at Summer’s end, then when?
September 14, 2025
Mirror rorriM
When we lessen our own material requirements, (persistently removing those pesky impulses and cravings one-at-a-time,) the incessant worldly demands of our children (and other household members) no longer vex us, as the mirror aspect is removed. 🪞
September 9, 2025
August 18, 2025
Symbiosis
Relationships with our children can be mutualistically symbiotic (both parties benefiting from the interaction), in which case they are heavenly. Of course, much of the time we must accept as parents that the symbiosis will feel parasitical (children rule, we drool), or commensal (they thrive, we status quo), at best.
July 28, 2025
Less zealous
Taking NOTES from the MEN (who have fewer options and less zealous marketing).
1. Pockets! - Perhaps even forgo a purse. 😱
2. Dresses and skirts (while they so contentedly stick with pants and shorts).
3. Fewer colors.
4. SMALLER CLOSETS.
5. Denim.
May 22, 2025
Luvin
Summer is next, my sweet friends!!
May 21, 2025
May 20, 2025
After you
May 19, 2025
Mast
Note to self - learning a handstand means actually practicing a handstand. The grass is greener and softer in Summer - enlist your partner and get to practicing al fresco.
May 18, 2025
Fantastic
May 15, 2025
April 30, 2025
April 28, 2025
just Astrid
NOT “Mom”, “Mother”, “Wife”, “Boss”, “ Secretary”, “Client”, (“Customer”, “Collaborator”, “Gate Keeper”, “Dog Owner”, “Chef”, “Chauffeur”, “Cleaning Lady”, “Counselor”…) Just Astrid.
It’s worthwhile and meaningful to uphold important (to you) roles and wear ones supervisor hats — to lead a purposeful life. But, boy, was it emancipating to relinquish administrative duties for a couple of days!
April 23, 2025
Whirly girl
I am forever giving all colors (patterns, fabrics, cuts, shapes, treatments … ) a whirl. Perennially curious or fashion victim? 🤷♀️


































