“Being in ‘nature’ is good for us,” “get out into ‘nature’,” “commune with ‘nature’ daily,” “eat more naturally, wear natural fibers, naturalify your home…” — hold the phone — we ARE nature!!! ☎️
Astrid Parker Kirschenbaum
November 21, 2025
November 18, 2025
November 9, 2025
Fashion Rules
As I am perpetually attracted to and distracted by bright, shiny objects and innumerable looks, modas and trends, I have to condition myself not to try every cut, color and material …
We should (in times of limitless options) make our own little unspoken edicts (whilst free to disobey and evolve said mandates constantly). Such as :
FOR FASHION (currently) -
1. No writing. Strong personal pet-peeve, should be its own post.
2. No logos. Especially not on heart or head!!
3. No black. Unless for equipment, like sports.
4. No polyester. Though also OK for athletic / specialty purposes.
5. No bands around the diaphragm. Camisoles in lieu of bras.
6. Streamlined underwear sets.
7. No high-heels. Low heels on occasion. Thick soles for dusty country living.
8. Soft style hair ties.
9. Mascara is for special days.
10. Shop while on vacation. Too taxing during regular family-life days.
11. The word ‘fashion’ gets a bad rap - and I keep hearing use ‘style’, but I like the practicality of fashion being a ‘system, manner, method, approach’, and the DIY aspect that to fashion is to ‘make, manufacture, construct, build’.
November 7, 2025
Your mat as an island
Your mat = your own little world. Today I left my rose quartz colored, woven cotton yoga mat in the yoga studio’s ladies room. Sob! I’ll pick it up next time, of course. I use a yoga rug and cannot believe this style has not caught on (I’ve seen only one other) as I give it zero complaints and many acclaims. ๐
October 31, 2025
Consistency
October 23, 2025
Gaseous ๐ฌ️
Handpick preferences and priorities. Your own, not others’.
October 12, 2025
Thingies ๐๐๐๐
If you’re not fond of that THING (the fit of your sweats, the tightness of your sports bra, the cut or color of your thong, the stroke of your hairbrush, the ingredients in your lip gloss, the squeeze of the scrunchie on your wrist…) today, it will inconvenience you even more tomorrow, but you will forget your aversion over time - so OUT NOW with that thingie! And all of its unsatisfactory thingie friends, too.
October 9, 2025
Eras
Be true to yourself in this present-day era: balance inner knowing with open curiosity. There is always room for improvement.
September 27, 2025
๐ญ
- ๐BAKE zucchini bread.
September 24, 2025
September 12, 2025
Matriarchy
Using passion, pleasure and emotion to find our rhapsody. ❤️๐ฅ
September 11, 2025
September 6, 2025
August 8, 2025
Housedressy
August 3, 2025
Swedish
July 29, 2025
Less zealous
Taking NOTES from the MEN (who have fewer options and less zealous marketing).
1. Pockets! - Perhaps even forgo a purse. ๐ฑ
2. Dresses and skirts (while they so contentedly stick with pants and shorts).
3. Fewer colors.
4. SMALLER CLOSETS.
5. Denim.
July 28, 2025
Peppy steppy
More PEP in my STEP this AM thanks to the husband who scooped up and brought back with him a small assemblage of attire from my main closet at home whilst there on a work day (I am on a month-long uninterrupted ‘reclusive’ vaycay). I didn’t realize how fatigued I was of my pathetic selection of duds (it is ASPEN, after all,) until I donned a neon swimsuit, gingham dress, silky cardi, pink suede sneakers and got a NEW LEASE ON LIFE!
P.S. The procuring of such items was made possible by strategic, color-coded closet organization (and periodic paring down,) allowing myself to plainly explain and my husband to effortlessly locate the 10 or so sought-after items in mere minutes via FaceTime. ๐️
July 26, 2025
Beacon
July 22, 2025
Rad
You know you’re having a pretty RAD summer when you’d rather PLAY in that lame purple bikini AGAIN (and be seen in it!) than stop to go SHOPPING.
July 21, 2025
My Armoire
As a former clothing COLLECTOR (hoarder-squirrel ๐ฟ️!) this is a new frontier for me —
Wear your SEASONAL (shop once quarterly max) wardrobe so much that there is no question as to whether you love and keep the clothing longer OR, NO QUALMS, they’ve fulfilled their destiny and you don’t!




















